Drunk drivers suck.

DaveH

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At some point, the Death Angel eventually comes for all of us... The only question is when. It's funny, you can work directly with someone for any number of years, have a great working relationship and repertoire, and not know as much about them as you think you did. Jim Rollins was such a person. As great a person as you'd ever want to know, never a cross word, just a great guy all around that you could depend on.  Some days he'd seem groggy or absent minded... I knew he gigged regularly, and didn't think much about it. Come to find out he might drive to VA, NC, or wherever, then drive back home afterwards and be at work the next day. I never went to see him play with his band, 'The West End String Band', and I deeply regret that now. You see, Blue Grass really isn't my thing, musically, although I hold the musicianship in high regard. Major talent in that genre. Maybe I'll pay more attention now. 

At 11:30pm on 9/7, he was returning from a gig in NC (he was just a few miles from his home) and a drunk driver hit him from behind at over 100mph. Jim's car was spun out and went into the ditch beside the interstate. He was thrown from the car, and died from blunt force trauma to the head. He was a safe "speed-limit-abiding-two-hands-on-the-wheel" type driver, so I don't know why he wasn't wearing his seatbelt that night. Maybe he was and it failed, I don't know. Same result either way. We buried Jim Sunday 9/17... This gave time for everyone to get out to pay their respects, since his family was scattered across the country and he had no wife or kids or anyone local. The number of respected musicians from all corners that showed up was unreal.

That visitation and service did help me put some things to rest, and I suppose this is my final outlet to move on. I haven't posted anywhere else about this. Guys and gals, if you know someone who is insisting on taking off drunk or even buzzed, please BUST THEIR ASS! Don't let them do it. The guy that hit Jim is still in jail, his wife and two girls are still at home alone, and Jim is still dead. Such a senseless, wasteful situation, all because of a really bad choice by one person. Thanks for listening.

For anyone interested, there was a write-up on Bluegrass Today, the very next morning after it happened:

 https://bluegrasstoday.com/jim-rollins-passes/

 
Sorry for your loss, sounds like a great guy. sometimes there are just no reasonable explanations.....

ArnieZ

 
Such a shame all around. Thanks for sharing the story and the personal impact, as well as solid words of wisdom re: driving impaired.

May we all find some peace and real comfort in the company of our fellows and loved-ones, WAY before that inevitable visit from said "Death Angel".

 
Deeply sorry.  

I agree with your assessment regarding drunk drivers - vehicular homicide due to impairment should be a capital offense.  Too many times society maintains an "Otis the Drunk" attitude toward repeat offenders up to the point it ends in (needless) tragedy.

 
Very sorry to hear that, sometimes life just isn't fair. But Jim's passing (even though I've never even met him) serves to reinforce stuff for me. 40-some years ago there were countless nights when I had no idea of how I got home after a gig or even where the car might be.  How I never injured or killed anyone I'll never know.  But I'm grateful that I didn't.  Thanks for the reminder, Jim.

 
                                         Tragic to hear and I'm sorry that your friend is gone....................and another man and his family their life will be forever changed because of a poor decision to drive drunk. I'll share this with you.................. I have never drank alcohol of any kind...............I have never even had a beer................... I'm 65 now. You can disbelieve and say yeah right but its true. I'm the oldest son of a alcoholic father.............and the oldest son of a stepfather who also was alcoholic. Both long gone now..............they showed me how NOT to do it and I vowed I would never be like them so I never took the chance to see IF I would be like them.............I'll die like I have lived my life. Music has provided me with comfort when it was not available from anywhere else..Some stuff in life just does not make sense no matter how hard you try to understand it............. and yeah DRUNK DRIVERS SUCK! BTW just a addendum,not looking for a sympathy vote here. I have had a great life with many guitars and many cars,great wife of 24 years,great kids so............ I had a great musician friend die last year when he was killed by a drunk driver who ran a stop sign so this thread struck a nerve and a remembrance of him.

 
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