Disagree with almost everything posted here that I know, or listened to, but hey, if it works for you and your lady, hit it! I've been hearing guys say "Avalon" is great since the '80's, but it always seemed like pablum to me. The Larry Carlton & Jim Hall suggestions are where I'm coming from. It's all about putting some great tracks together on a disc or as I did back when I was 19, on a reel to reel tape. Back when I was a sophomore in college, I grabbed an old Ampex reel to reel tape deck that my Dad wasn't using, and put about 2 hours of music on tape that I'd always play if I thought I had a chance with the girl I was with. I wish I still had it (recorded it in '77), but I remember some of the songs on it were; Jeff Becks' "Cause we've ended as Lovers", and "Diamond Dust" from Blow by Blow, and "Love is Green" from Wired. Wes Montgomerys' version of "Misty", "Blackberry Winter" by Keith Jarrett (the version with Piano/Bass/Drums), and anything my roommate and I could find that was jazzy, like Al Caiola, and even some of his Moms' albums, like Julie London ("Cry Me A River" was cool), but most of it was instrumental. That tape worked so well with what were 18-20 year old girls back then, that one chick I brought back to my room, even gave me a look as soon as I put it on, as if to say "Shit, I'm gonna get laid, aren't I?" Ahhh, magical times. Other songs that fit really well with this are Santanas' "Europa", SRV's "Riviera Paradise", and if you can find some John Klemmer songs that don't have one of his trademark "saxophone farts" in it (a mood killer, because you'll both laugh), you're on your way. Latin jazz is a great way to get things started if you can dance at all, (you're really just rubbing up against each other with that stuff, and they say that dancing is just f**king, standing up, anyway). You can, and should, even use vocal music for this. ANYTHING that Astrud Gilberto sang is a winner, as are some of the songs by Sergio Mendes. If you play "Mas Que Nada", "Summer Samba" (play these first, 'cause they're the fastest), Girl from Ipanema", "Corcovado", "Wave", "Desafinado" all in a row, and your girl isn't humping your leg, ditch the bitch, 'cause she's got no soul.