The secret is to buy a big enough house----Or at least one with spaces to hide the gear..... AND schedule the deliveries for when she is at the gym! Separate bank accounts works too.
I'm not buying!
You caught her with another guy or you gotta be holdin' something else over her head.
I've got a few buddies who make HUGE money, and even they would be takin' crap for bringing all this stuff home.
GLWTSs