jettster Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 I couldn't even imagine...... Hang in there bro.
zorrow Posted September 17, 2006 Posted September 17, 2006 I can imagine... and it's scary. My Dad is still alive and just the idea of loosing him brings tears to my eyes. But it also brings a lot of good memories, and those you bet will never go. I wish you then a lot of strength to move through your sadness, as well as the best memories in the world. And remember this: it is always great having made it this far. It is a privilege being here. Life is also death, but your father's continuity is in you and in your siblings (if you have them) and in whatever else he left in this planet. If there was at least one single happy moment in his life, then it was worth it. My deepest condolences!
Guest galejt Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 It gets better Marty.It did for me.It will for you.Be strong for the people around you.It bodes well for you all in the long run.JIm
bobbymack Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Sorry for your loss and best wishes.I lost my pop in '02, and it's tough. But it gets better, you remember the good stuff, and will think about him every day...Peace to your family.
mudshark Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Sorry to hear that.....condolences to you and your family.
Jorge Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Marty, my most sincere condolences to you and your family. Been there, I can guess how you feel.Best wishes,Jorge.
hamerhead Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 It's a tough loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Guest JackButler Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Marty,My deepest condolences for your lost. Many prayers out to you and your family from me and mine.You need something or just want to vent or whatever..drop me a line..Kev
stobro Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
David B Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Marty,Very sorry. I know how you feel.David
teleman Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 So sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad ten years ago and there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of him. Everything that you think about your Dad that brings a tear to your eye today will bring a smile to your face in years to come.Embrace the good times and thoughts you hold about him.My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
cmatthes Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Marty - we'll definitely be thinking about you and your family. Many people above have already said things that I was thinking. I still think about my Dad often and am glad for the time we did have; good, bad and just plain father-son time. You'll keep that part.Hang in there for the tough times.
LordOfTheThighs Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Sorry to hear about your pop. Prayers going out.
hamertek98 Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Marty, I'm very sorry for your loss. Prayers sent for you and your family. DeWayne
formula73 Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Wow man. I'm so sorry. I don't know what else to tell you. I wish I could help you feel better by doing something stupid and funny, but I don't think it would.
BLuesBuster Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Marty, I'm really sorry for your loss.
Hamer Bass Head Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 sorry for your loss...I lost my father a few years back and the empty space that was left seemed like the grand canyon, but over time I came to realize that although he isn't here now,I'll always have the memories and so he'll always be here.... It will take some time but you'll realize how lucky you were to have the time together you did and you'll treasure the memories.
ctrixie Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 Marty, so sorry to hear that. My best wishes to you and your family.
BCR Greg Posted September 18, 2006 Posted September 18, 2006 I know how you feel, Marty. It passes, but only partially.6 years ago, my father died in his sleep after 12 remissions in 20 years. We prepared ourselves for his death 12 times, and he made it. When he actually did pass, all that preparation was in vain. The loss is so damn FINAL. It took a year or so before I could smile when thinking of him. Now, years later, I am not ashamed to cry when I miss him. He was THE MAN. I aspire to be half what he was.Love your dad, those that have them. Even if it isn't "manly" to hug the guy, DO IT.Once he's gone, you'll understand.If you need to talk, Marty. call me.
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